what is the difference between illusion and hope! i guess it; just another way for human to console themselves... for once we though that life is full of what we call 'miracle' and 'hope' but actually it's all what it is that makes us feel much more convince about ourselves. There are numerous times where we nearly fell into the trap of 'hope'. Can't we just put those false believe behind and start working? Well i don't think human can really live with that, can't they? Probably this what makes the human's world such unpredictable ones'. But reality, is that life is simple like A,B,C... Each and every path we choose has different outcome that is waiting for us to unfold and try to solve the missing puzzle... After the puzzles, then there is riddles, etc... nothing is straightforward in the sense that we can achieve what we desire and not... there are so many people out there keeps telling others that the how the world isn't all bout.. This disguise has been far too long living in us. It's time for it to move along and we take charge of our own destination in life....
maybe some day, I can just wake up from this dreamland and start all over again....
"Do we have goals in life?" What's our respond? How should we answer this question? But the main point is that are we answerable to ourself and how exactly are we closing in on our goals? If we can't do so, why are we so curious about others? What others has in mind doesn't necessary means that it's also what we want. We are born uniquely with our own ability and with different missions that we should accomplish during the course of our life. However things constantly change with time but our goals doesn't change even if we have to spend 10-20 years to achieve what we have been aiming for all these while. Therefore, we must be conscious and focus on what we want rather than keep pondering on our own mistakes. If that's the case, how much time left for us to complete the mission? Do we have all the time that we would want to complete what we have started or to begin on a new goal? The answer is very obvious; "NO" Then why must we procrastinate? Is there any assurance that we are able to achieve our goal in a certain time period considering that we doesn't take it seriously. Does it really worth taking such chances and jeopardize our own future? I won't consider that at all. I can't or what shall I say, I'm not willing to lead such miserable life without any desire or direction. Can we manage if this would happen on us? I won't just be a quitter instead try to find the goal that has been illuding in my life. Life isn't not about giving up or quitting but is all about success and winning.
Don't we all agree that the word 'influence' play a role in our life? Without the presence of influence, will we be of what we are today? How can we deny that we aren't influence by our friends, surrounding or our own family members? The answer is pretty straight-forward, we choose not to admit that we are being influence by someone else because we don't want to be branded as a 'copy-cat' of what others are doing. But does all these really matters? Sometimes we shouldn't care what others has to say that could deter us from our aim to succed. However there are times where we just can't resists the pull of the crowd; this moment we had crumble under the influence of the surrounding and the next thing is that we don't know where our aim and goal lies. That's what we want? I'm sure that majority of us won't relish this type of life as the future is surrounded with uncertainties and question. Therefore in life, we should not make rash decisions and always have second thought before deciding our next move. Word "no" should be a common vocabulary in our life. "Why?" Humans won't really like to be decline but saying "no" in certain situations might just saved us...... from unforseen conditions. "Who know's?" Hence we must always be consious of our action and not just to please others. I'm sure that we won't want to regret at the end of the day saying "if I wish, I could just turned back the clock and start all over again" unfortunately we can't do so. "The pass will always be the pass" Why can't we practice to be more responsible in deciding what we want? Just paused a while, turned and looked around; then decide where to go. Like that we won't be in the wrong end of the situation. This might be the catalyst for us and our friends to move on towards achieving our respective ambitions. I won't conclude that we shouldn't follow what our friends said but always think before we decide......... "Future lies in our own hands; don't bust it!!!!"