Does this word has any significant meaning to us? For those who are successful in life and have a family, they might know just how much this word mean to them. Now we might not know the exact meaning of this word yet, later we'll understand the true meaning. Why? The answer is simple because we haven't experience that before; that's why we must be brave in certain situation in order that we'll be able to feel the special feeling that we are looking for. If we missed that opportunity, that feeling will go off. When the next time, we are in the similar situation, we won't be able to have that feeling that we longing for instead we might or might not have any feeling. Isn't that what we want? Things and humans do have some in common; that's it's unique in a sense that we can't have two things which are alike so do human. Once we lost something, that's it; we won't be able to have it back. And the biggest disappointment is yet to come. Surprised? Yea..., yea....... no doubt that's a slight possibility that we can have a similar thing to which we had lost but do remember that similar and the original has a vast difference. Are we still able to get back those sweet memories that we had? What would be your answer? I'm keen to know your answer............ 

Life is like a cross junction, whereby we can either choose one but not both. Once we have decided to choose that particular path, there isn't any turning back. It's like in an F1 car on a racing circuit, which is only equip with the throttle, break, steering, gear and seat belt but not the reverse option . Once the race has begin, there are only two option available; complete the race or retire from the race. If we choose to complete it, then we shall do our best to win the race; if not there isn't any meaning if our aim is just to finish the race. In reality that's what we are going through; hence we must be wise when dealing with decisions that will influence our journey in life. No doubt, there's temptation which might mislead us but it's up to us to decide whether to accept or decline it. I won't say that all temptations aren't good but there is some which may deceive us with its good appearance; there's where we must decide and mustn't allowed any other factors to influence our decision. Upon deciding, we should stand by the decision and never backtrack it as this may lead to people around us to question our decision making ability. Isn't it necessary for others to cast doubt on our judgement? I think everyone won't like others to ask the question "why have you decided to choose this solution rather than the other resolution?" Everyone is entitle to their opinion but must they interfere in our decision? Some might respond by saying "why not?" if they can help us to have the best solution; but how many are there in this society? Truth and reality might be harsh but sometimes it's best for us to decide what's best for ourself after getting feedback from others. In this way, the prospect of us making bad decision would be lesser and we will have a better view about the matter. Besides, we will have no regrets in life because we believe that every decision we made is in the best interest of us regardless of the circumstances. That's why our elder always advise us not to make haste decision that will jeopardize our own future because we have only one life to achieve what we dream of, to build and leave a legacy of us for the next generation. 

Heard of this line before? Apart from movie title and books title; where else do we usually use this phase? In fact the answer is "no". Why?....... It's due to the fact that humans always thought that they know what's going to happen next....... and they don't even care what's going to happen next. Human nature!!!!! But when things doesn't quite turn out as they would like, often they will put the blame on others just to ignore responsibility. A common scenario would be when we are receiving responds or decisions that would determine our route in life. When we receives less convincing or negative reply, instantly we'll blame this and that for our failure to achieve the answer that we would like to hear. Why can't we accept this as part and parcel of life? Maybe those decision would benefit us at the end..... who know's? Sometimes decisions that doesn't goes our way, we mustn't be sad; it doesn't necessary means that we are failure. Just when we thought we are done, suddenly there is bright light shining at the end of a long tunnel; therefore we mustn't give up without putting a strong fight. In life, there's no such thing as no hope because each creation of God is something special. Hence we must be always be optimistic in everything we attempt in life. Miracle might just happen anytime without us knowing. So why must be sad over somethings that wasn't meant for us?  Letting it go isn't a bad thing after all..... 

"A good friend is sooner lost than won" Do we really understand this phase throughly? If we do, why are we still arguing and fight over small issues? Won't that hurt our friendship? Doesn't our friendship worth more than that small issue? If that's the case, it would seriously put our friendship in jeopardy because of our haste decisions at that time. Is it worth to do so; friends that share the same passion, understands us and help us during bad times aren't easy to get. Why can't we avoid this type of situation for the sake of our friendship? Isn't that difficult? We won't know what's going to happen tomorrow; that's why we should really cherish and appreciate our friends before it's too late. We mustn't be jealous of our friends as jealousy will lead to hatred towards others and abruptly end to our friendship. Besides, we won't be happy so as our friend too; why must we both suffer? Without friends, our life won't be much of excitement, joy and adventures; our success and happiness can't be shared by others. Is this type of life, that we want to lead? I won't think so, everybody would like to share their joy and sadness with others so they won't be lonely during their lows and highs in life. When problem arise, we won't be facing it alone but with the support and encouragement of our friends; we would be able to see it through confidently. If there isn't friendship, where do companionship comes about? That's why we shouldn't take our friends for granted. Without their support, how can we achieve our goal and desire in life? Success and friendship are related; instance in a football game, without our colleague's support, how can we be able to score a goal? That's life......

What's the synonym of the word "Pressure"? Suspected answers would be associate with work, studies, family, relationships and so on..... Do we exactly know the real meaning of this word? From Oxford dictionary, it sounds like this "the use of persuasion, influence,or intimidation to make someone to do something" from this point of view, it's clear that "pressure" shouldn't be the reason for all the bad and unforeseen incident that happens around us just because we are going through difficult times. Why must we blame others but not ourselves? Isn't it strange to blame that too much pressure cause me this and that? Failures always must be linked with pressure? I don't really agree!!! For a moment we should pause and think why we should allow pressure to get to our nerves? Can't we treat pressure and failure at equal terms? Why not?That's why we should always keep in mind that pressure mustn't be seen from the negative prospect but from the positive side. All of these are just theoretical but the most important point is how we practice it in life? Sometimes things aren't that complex but we choose to think from the other prospective; that's where we exert pressure on ourselves and others. Isn't it easy if we always keep things simple as it's and try to see things from different angles. I believe we would be much more happier and able to achieve greater heights. Studies and working is exactly the same; we must finish our assignment, know our facts well, right attitude and other qualities. The only differences are the method we apply and our aim. so what's the big fuss about studying? In fact we should be thankful that to God that we can study in peace rather than having the perception of people pressuring you to do something which is correct. Besides that we also need to open our subconscious mind to accept things that going to benefit us than shutting the door to our mind permanently. At the end we would be the losing ones because of our stubbornness to accept others. A wise person would always be open to accept things that comes around in life for the betterment of themselves. 

"Family"........ What you have in mind when you hear that word? Usual answers would be mother, father, brother, sister, food, room, and bla......bla...... How much do we actually think of our family members when we are far apart from them? Some might just ignore while others will think it over and they might start to have the feeling of loneliness despite having friends around. All of this is because of the word "love". Without this word, there won't be any relationship between human and human, human and plant, human and animals. Hence we shouldn't forget the word "love". In each human being there is soft spot in them; sometimes they just too ego to admit and said the magic phase "I miss you" and "I love you,mom or dad" These simple phases aren't that difficult to say it out yet there're some refuse to do so but why?

Hopefully you have a good answer and explanation for that..... Suddenly a strange feeling come across my heart and mind telling me that i should tell my family that i do really love them and cherish them a lot. Sometimes i just hope that time won't had passed that fast; so we can pause and prolong the happy moments that we share with our family members. I would rather have a happy family than having all the wealth in the world but without happiness; what's the point? I won't want to have regrets all my life until the day i breath my last breathe..........

"Time and tide wait for no man"....... A few years has passed just like that, I'm another year older, so do you too but did we regretted what we have done these few years back? Some will say "yes" while others might say "no". How do we really know that we didn't regretted about what we had done? Maybe we just didn't realize that because we thought our action was the right at that time. We could easily broke someone's heart without even knowing because of our haste decision. I felt really bad when i gave it a thought for second time. Why can't we be slight more rational and aware while talking to other so that we won't have hurt their feelings... Therefore we should and must always keep in mind that we don't want others to hurt us, we shouldn't hurt others in the first place. Life is too short for us to ponder upon our mistakes and regrets. That's why we must learnt to appreciate others while we still have the chance to do so. Life's exactly like a burning candle; there're times where we lit brightly and times the light become dims, hence we must make full use of the period when we lights brightly so that we won't have regrets at the end of the day. Opportunities doesn't comes so often, grabbing it and utilized that fully is the key to a successful life. It's often to hear that people screwed up when they have the chance but it's rarely to hear that people get it right on the first time..... Why, how, what and bla.... bla..... are the common questions that we usually asked ourselves but when only we would wake up from our dream and learn to accept failure as part of life and stop asking questions instead start from the beginning again...........

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Hey, I'm just an ordinary dude but with enthusiasm that could potentially leads me to new highs in life. I'm embarking on a journey which may help me to discover new things that could add to my life journey.